Each of us is more resilient than we realize. In the face of turbulence, we have the ability to anticipate risk, limit impact, and bounce back rapidly through survival and adaptability. We also have the ability to tap into and reset the natural balance of our nervous system.
One tool that harnesses the body’s innate ability to override reactions to fear and threat is called “resourcing”— anything that helps us feel better or provides comfort. An internal resource is something positive inside of us such as a talent, a trait, or ability. An external resource is something outside of us such as a loved one, a place, a memory, or a pet. Resourcing puts the brakes on our fight-or-flight response and shifts us into a rest-or-digest state.
The first step is to bring to mind something that sustains and nurtures you — a positive memory, a person, place, pet, or spiritual guide. Or a talent or trait inside that you value. Ten redirect your attention to the accompanying pleasant or calming sensations felt inside, and focus on those sensations for a minute or two.
In turbulent times, you can reset your nervous system by:
1.) Bringing to mind a person, place, pet, or strong personal quality that gives you strength or joy.
2.) Holding that resource in your mind’s eye while paying attention to the pleasant sensations.
3.) Noticing your slowed breath, heart rate, and muscle tension.
Take the Risk to Bloom
Although growth can be painful (that’s why we call them growing pains), it can be even more painful to remain tight in our little security holes. Taking the risk to bloom determines whether we become the writers we want to be and whether we attain the things of value and achieve the goals we set.
Even in distressful times when we come short of our writing goals, we must refuse to view risk and effort as actions that might reveal our inadequacies or show that we’re not up to the task. We continue to take risks, confront challenges, and keep working at our craft. Instead of hiding our deficiencies, we identify and overcome them.
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